Hello!!!! Day Four has already crept up on us! Was having a few technical difficulties with verification codes for email accounts as they thought I was being hacked...the good news is that we have arrived in Romania. It is me using my email account so nothing to worry about. I was apparently hacking myself.
Anyhow...here we are in Eastern Europe on our way to Sighisoara!
We received a rundown of the work and the organisation on the way to the house...Romania is a very desperate country, both materially and spiritually.
Prostitution is rife and there are many women sent out by their husbands to earn additional money for monthly bills. Driving up to the house we passed many young women on the streets. The men were pointed out on various corners too as they spend their time controlling the women and ensuring the money is passed on directly. The desperation is so great that the women often assume that it is part of their role to provide money for their children. However it is often forced upon these women and it is a heartbreaking situation.
Prolife clinics are also part of the work here in Sighisoara. There are a few complications in this area of life. One of the reasons that women who are wanting to get sterilised come up against resistance is due to the risk of the people helping the women to get sterilised being accused of ethnic cleansing. They could be blamed for decreasing the viable childbearing population no longer being able to have children and sustain the population. The pressure incurred over this leads to a lot of doctors being unwilling to participate in sterilisation and a large group of women wanting to be sterilised but unable to have the procedure done. A lot of children are therefore unwanted leading to a very high number of women asking for abortions. Abortions are not explained well and there is great misunderstanding as to what the women are signing up to. Often the women only discover what an abortion is upon attending the prolife clinic where it is clearly explained and further contraceptive methods are discussed. The use of long term contraceptives are now being looked into to see if a solution can be offered.
Abandoned babies are a result of unwanted children due to either large family size and inability to afford care. The charity used to have the opportunity to go into the hospital and care for the abandoned babies there. They would wash the babies, feed them and show them love. Unfortunately, there are no babies looked after at the hospital under these circumstances due to issues with the doctor. Now there are "technically" no babies being abandoned in the eyes of the hospital staff although it is very sadly not the case.
So much more to say about the population and the people of Romania...but enough for now and will include some more in the next couple of blogs to try and build up a fuller picture of the community of people we have come to work in. So moving on to what we have been doing the last few days...
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| The Yard Outside |
We arrived on the same day as a family. They had been invited to spend a few days at the house to relax and have some time away from a stressful home situation. We had the chance to play some games with them including football and table tennis. We couldn't speak much Romanian to them and the mother and children didn't have much English but we were able to have fun and laugh together all the same!
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| Nicola and her skills |
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| Natalie stepping up |
Messages had to be done in town so we were able to go in and visit the Citadel and wander around.
Tuesday morning we were upstairs getting ready for the day and the children of the family came out to speak to us. We began to chat and play with them. The parents came out and we found ourselves in the middle of family devotions on Romans 5 which was such an encouragement. The others staying in the house were away on a day trip up and we were able to go and spend the day in Sighisoara. We were dropped off at 11am and were told to be at the train station for 10:30. So that was us for the day.
We began by shopping for a picnic lunch in the various supermarkets. We also found shorts for Natalie in a shop which were lovely....however we also found the exact same ones in the shop beside for half price....needless to say Natalie was not amused. However we found a water polo ball further down the street which made up for the loss! Then we headed to the pool and had great fun with some of the children there playing games with the ball and learning some romanian games. Much confusion at the beginning trying to understand what was going on but Nicola and I soon had the hang of it. It basically involved playing 'tig' but den was underneath the water if you shouted "Apa". So it was a lot of underwater time trying to remember which children were playing and which weren't!
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| Swimming Pool fun with Romanian children |
Then it got windy very suddenly and a storm hit within 5 minutes! Thunder and lightning came and caused a swift dash to the cafe area where everyone had congregated. It was crowded but we passed the time playing games and singing much to the amusement of everyone else in the vicinity. Once it has passed we headed back into town with towels over our heads to minimise the soaking.
We then decided it would be fun to have a trust exercise within our team of three. I went first. I had to close my eyes and be guided by Natalie and Nicola through the streets. Then Nicola went next. Natalie took over the directions and guided her up the final sets of stairs and then round a tree in a circle. The final part of the task was to perform her favourite dance move with her eyes closed. Natalie hadn't checked what was happening behind her when she suggested it. Little did she know that a crowd of tourists were being guided across the square behind both of them...I personally seen it coming. But it was hilarious to see Nicola dancing away with the group trying to figure out if she was part of the tour or not. Noone clapped afterwards which was embarassing for everyone but it was very funny! I'm not sure if any trust has been built up or not.
It then came up in conversation that Nicola attended swing-dancing in Edinburgh which immediately led to an impromptu dance lesson for natalie....video below! Really worth a watch.
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| A swing dancing lesson on the streets of Sighisoara |
After dinner we decided it was time to try and find the train station. After taking a right instead of a left we found it...half an hour later. But not to worry...Nicola knew where it was all along :)
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Nicola safely at the train station after the detour
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Wednesday morning began with more singing...
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| Singing in the Morning |
Then we began preparations for the medical team and cleaned beds from storage...

I popped up to the room to grab some suncream and that's where I found everyone else! Nicola and Joanne were standing on beds. Natalie was standing in the middle of the room looking somewhere nervous. There was a lot of giggling in fear going on. Nicola announced that there was a racoon. Natalie decided there was a mouse...which was in the corner chest of drawers. So it was determined that I was chief mouse catcher. Not entirely sure I was qualified to take that role but there we were. I began by sending the two gigglers out of the room. As soon as they were gone Natalie let it slip that she also was petrified...which left me. Not ideal but I couldn't go back now! We carefully opened the drawers and flung items out on to the floor...after all the drawers were emptied and then refilled with much enthusiasm and tension we moved to Plan B. We banged the side of the drawers while I stood poised with a box ready to capture the mouse. It never moved. We flung a frisbee underneath to try and scare it out of the corner. It didn't budge. I lay flat on the floor and Natalie reluctantly held the box to capture the mouse. It never came. I removed the frisbee from underneath after much persuasion....and with it came a mouse! Already attached to a piece of cardboard. We had just spent 30 minutes trying to catch an already caught mouse... But now that you've heard my side of the story Natalie and Nicola were keen to share theirs. So I've not pre-read their versions as time is short but here you go...team members stepping up and adding to the blog...
Natalie's Account:
I entered the bedroom to find Nicola distraught as she was hearing squeaking noises and movement, what she thought sounded like a raccoon I had already decided was a mouse. So yet again team leader stepped up to the task of scouting out the mouse and catching it....one handed...no box or frisbee or any other item required just the attitude of a good friend and team member stepping up to relieve the fear of the others in the room. I was totally prepared until Sarah walked in to 'help', but it's ok I kept it all under control and the mouse got caught!It totally wasn't already caught in glue and there was no fear shown on my behalf...to brave for that carry on!
Nicola's Account
SPOILER: 'It was already stuck to a board, dying'
So, I was sitting on my bed, Sarah and Natalie were on another, yabbering away between themselves, and me having the keen ears I have heard some noises/ I asked if they heard it too, and they dismissed it as coming from outside. Being the keen detective I am, I knew better. I suggested a raccoon They laughed. They laughed at me. The nerve of them...
Anyway, I think I am going to carry on in a less descriptive manner, as the story actually isn't that interesting and you are about to have to read to other forms of it (I'd just skip the other two if I were you, they won't be as good).
Oh, so yeah, back to the story. I was then in the room alone. I do not just sit around doing nothing all the time, as this might lead you to believe, really. I am sure there was a very good reason I was in the room. I just can't remember it. I heard some quite loud scratching noises coming from across the room and then I heard squeaking from the side. I was not pretty positive this wasn't a small rodent. Maybe it was a raccoon? No, I can admit when I am wrong. I can. I was now thinking a rat.
I got Natalie to come listen. She heard it and realising her mistake in doubting me, she got down and begged for my forgiveness. I graciously allowed it.
Let's us cut to the chase, Natalie got brave and started hitting around the place to scoot the wee thing out. She even kicked some towels. I mean talk about dedication! Joanne came up and perhaps was a little frightened and may have stood on the bed. Natalie wanted to kill it, I was not so sure of this idea. Sarah decided to join us, because she realised she was missing out on the banter. She quickly proceeded to kick us out the room and let only Natalie back in because she is a banter-hog. Or maybe it was because we were just making the situation more stressful and she is a superhero who was majorly brave in the face of the unknown, and planned on catching the wee critter and freeing it. I wasn't scared or anything, just if it had ran at me, I may have not handled it so well. I agree with her decision. She is a wise one, that one. So then I hear Natalie saying she was actually scared and Sarah having to manage that situation, but Natalie handled her fear well. She stood up to the challenge. I do not know what happened in that room, but I know it ended with a dead mouse, you knew that too though, as I spoilered you at the beginning. So please ignore what I said earlier and carry on for the next installment...
And I am back again....
The rest of the day was spent holding down a tent in a thunderstorm...well, some of us were holding the tent, Natalie was seeing if she could do pull ups on the bar!
The children of the family who we spent time with throughout the day!
Thursday...we cleared out an attic full of old buggies and prams that needed to be cleaned out. They are going to a prolife clinic to mothers who do not have pushchairs or cots.
Cleaning was good fun...
Until the power went to someones' head...
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| Power Hosed buggies. |
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| The Hard Workers |
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| When the family left |
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| Out for pizza |
And that's all for now! A lot more has happened but I don't want to bombard you too much already. But this is already huge so I'll try to get on more frequently and keep you all updated!